“i’m 16 now and too fat and poor for lolita. i’m saving like crazy and crash dieting non stop because i just feel like time is ticking. i’m so terrified that i’ll only be able to afford beautiful dresses once i’m 20, because then i’d hardly have time to enjoy it, since you look way less youthful and people start bashing you for being too old for lolita once you’re 25+”
Well if people bash on me because i’m over 25 that’s on them. Mind you I AM 25 and turning 26 in a few weeks.
Why would you care about what people way younger than you would say. I’m sure you don’t pay attention to the insults your younger siblings say. So why care what young strangers who might not be as wise as you say.
Not saying kids are dumb, but why listen to a child if they are being childish and have no constructive imput at all.
Besides, you should wear the fashion because you want to and if people hate on you for that, then they’ve got too much time on their hands.